Gaining insight is a process, of which judgement is not a part.
I try to walk through this life with an open mind -without running to my next "destination" and making a point to stop every now and then. I want to sincerely understand the chaos I encounter. Ironically enough -the chaos has managed to bring me a sense of peace/a clarity in purpose.

The sage seeks insight from chaos and doubt NOT making distinctions, but dwelling on that which is unchanging is called clear vision. -Chuang Tsu